I Need Some Opinions...

[celeste rockelle dream]

Hey! So I've been having a little bit of a friendship crisis lately and I need some opinions on who's right/wrong...
So, I posted a really crappy graphic on Caution 2.0 just so my friend would get mad when the request went pending and then when I said that I did it for a joke she flipped out on me! Then, three minutes later, says that she only exploded on me because her brother was annoying her and starting saying REALLY nice things...she said something about being jealous of my skills...I didn't believe her.

I don't know if I should make up with her or if I should just ignore her! What's YOUR opinion?
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[alden oliver selwyn]

SO let me get this straight, cause I am confused slightly. You posted it just the piss her off? Or was it as a joke type of deal?

And by posting the graphic do you mean you actually made one for said friend and replied to the post or what? Not sure how Caution works on their request these days

[celeste rockelle dream]

I sort of did it as a joke...to annoy her a little...
And I did reply to her post...
I don't see why she was so annoyed...
Understand?

[alden oliver selwyn]

Yeah a bit better. Sorry! Didn't quite follow, but then again once you get to know me I find it hard to follow all the time xD

So, the doctor is in, and this is my honest opinion giving the information (I apologize for length ahead of time)

The blame or wrongness of the situation technically lies with her, but it also lies a bit with you as well. On her side, she shouldn't have gone off on you just cause her brother was annoying her. That right there shows an extreme lack in character and can cause problems down the road in friendship. In other words, she's going to get mad over the little things which isn't right. Sure, brothers can be annoying, I live with a little one that can drive me up the wall at times, but that doesn't allow me to take that out on anyone, even him.

Now with that said, your part in the matter was a bit off. Depending on the situation (and once again this is just with what information is being told to me) if the graphic was something she wanted done badly and you stepped in just to mess with her, that was a tad wrong. A joke is a joke, and I understand that, but at the same time if it was me and my friend and the situation was with a guitar or something I really wanted done, I'd be a little pissed too. Now if that's not the case and it was just a random thing, then really it all lies with her. Once again though this is just based off of what you told me.

Bottom line for me: She isn't that great of a friend. If she's going to go off cause of her little brother, what's not to say she won't go off cause her toothpaste is out? Yes, a little extreme, but I have dealt with a lot of people like that and they are no good, especially the ones that tried to pull the whole "You are so much better than me" after the incident. Trust your gut, if you feel like she was just saying you were better and you don't believe that giving the circumstances, then don't. People sometimes resort to that as a quick 'fix it' for a relationship problem, and it's nothing but an act.

Once again I am no doctor, nor am I studying Psychology. I've dealt with a lot of people in my life and this is just my opinion, do what you will with it. If there is any more to the story or anything or you have a question, ask. I don't bite, I promise xD

[celeste rockelle dream]

@alden
I strongly agree with your opinion...
Thank you for the gracious thinking...

@everyone
If anyone else wants to share their opinions it's still open

[destiny quinn dubois]

Feb 18, 2012 22:15:26 GMT alden oliver selwyn said:

Yeah a bit better. Sorry! Didn't quite follow, but then again once you get to know me I find it hard to follow all the time xD

So, the doctor is in, and this is my honest opinion giving the information (I apologize for length ahead of time)

The blame or wrongness of the situation technically lies with her, but it also lies a bit with you as well. On her side, she shouldn't have gone off on you just cause her brother was annoying her. That right there shows an extreme lack in character and can cause problems down the road in friendship. In other words, she's going to get mad over the little things which isn't right. Sure, brothers can be annoying, I live with a little one that can drive me up the wall at times, but that doesn't allow me to take that out on anyone, even him.

Now with that said, your part in the matter was a bit off. Depending on the situation (and once again this is just with what information is being told to me) if the graphic was something she wanted done badly and you stepped in just to mess with her, that was a tad wrong. A joke is a joke, and I understand that, but at the same time if it was me and my friend and the situation was with a guitar or something I really wanted done, I'd be a little pissed too. Now if that's not the case and it was just a random thing, then really it all lies with her. Once again though this is just based off of what you told me.

Bottom line for me: She isn't that great of a friend. If she's going to go off cause of her little brother, what's not to say she won't go off cause her toothpaste is out? Yes, a little extreme, but I have dealt with a lot of people like that and they are no good, especially the ones that tried to pull the whole "You are so much better than me" after the incident. Trust your gut, if you feel like she was just saying you were better and you don't believe that giving the circumstances, then don't. People sometimes resort to that as a quick 'fix it' for a relationship problem, and it's nothing but an act.

Once again I am no doctor, nor am I studying Psychology. I've dealt with a lot of people in my life and this is just my opinion, do what you will with it. If there is any more to the story or anything or you have a question, ask. I don't bite, I promise xD

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